How can I become gifted?

Just because she is gifted, doesn't mean she's going to be happy in life. And isn't this the best measure of success? You are using somebody else as a measure, and guess what? There is ALWAYS going to be somebody smarter, richer, better looking, faster, etc. etc,. It just so happens that person lives in the same house as you. You have to focus on being the best YOU that you can be, and forget about trying to impress anybody else, your parents included. Maybe your gifts aren't something that can be easily measured, like empathy and humour.